Coaching Tip: My friend, who had just made a whopper of a mistake, said to me "I hate myself for being imperfect." How often I hear this from clients, friends and family. The irony is that it is the imperfections that make us perfect and unique individuals. If instead of rejecting ourselves, we viewed our [...]
Career opportunities often start with making the work you might already be doing the very best you can. I recently sold a car that had been sitting for more than a year. The company who repaired it, Randy's Mobile in Concord, CA, not only smogged and repaired it, but they washed it inside and out [...]
Coaching requests often start with clients asking us to help them find their purpose in life. This is not the question to ask. You don't need a reason for being here. You are here. No need of validation. The question to ponder is "What will I serve, while I'm here?" "What experience do I most [...]
Help me find a career, our clients say. The answer to the beginning of that journey can often be seen more clearly by observing our children. Today, my beautiful son Elijah is graduating or being "promoted" ( I don't like that word) from 5th grade. As I watch him prepare for his big event I [...]
Job opportunities increase by huge amounts when we realize that many of the barriers we face are within. His Holiness the Dalai Lama proclaimed to a stunned crowd at a Vancouver Peace Summit, "The world will be saved by the Western Woman." Which I believe is true, but only when the Western Woman learns to [...]
It's ironic that while nature has created a multitude of amazing shapes, patterns, tastes, scents, colors, paths and directions, we humans got stuck thinking we had to walk in one particular "straight ahead" direction. Most of our suffering at work comes from thinking we have to look and act only one way. The question for [...]
How many times have we stayed in relationships we knew were over? Or how often have we stayed at jobs we outgrew and no longer found satisfying? We often cling to what we have outgrown, like a person on the ledge of a burning building, afraid to stay, afraid to let go. It is resistance [...]